Stop using apiset in OneCore build: use onecoreuap.lib instead of onecoreuap_apiset.lib (#19632)

### Description
Stop using apiset in OneCore build: use onecoreuap.lib instead of
onecoreuap_apiset.lib in onecore build.


### Motivation and Context
1. Now all Windows Editions come with Reverse Forwarders. We should just
use the normal onecore libs.
2. Many new Windows APIs are only available in [windows umbrella
libraries](https://learn.microsoft.com/en-us/windows/win32/apiindex/windows-umbrella-libraries).
So these libraries are not specific for Windows CoreOS or Onecore.
3. Going forward we should use "IsApiSetImplemented" to guard our API
usages:

https://learn.microsoft.com/en-us/windows/win32/apiindex/detect-api-set-availability
.

After this change, our built binaries can pass apivalidator's check.

```
C:\local\apivalidator>apivalidator.exe -BinaryPath:C:\src\onnxruntime\b\Debug\Debug\onnxruntime.dll -SupportedApiXmlFiles:onecoreuap_DDIs.xml
ApiValidation:
Summary:
        "C:\src\onnxruntime\b\Debug\Debug\onnxruntime.dll" is Universal


ApiValidation: All binaries are Universal
```
So it will give an easy way to test ONNX Runtime's compatibility to
Windows versions.

cmake/CMakeLists.txt

@@ -1729,14 +1729,12 @@ if(onnxruntime_BUILD_KERNEL_EXPLORER)
 endif()
 
 # When GDK_PLATFORM is set then WINAPI_FAMILY is defined in gdk_toolchain.cmake (along with other relevant flags/definitions).
-if (WIN32 AND NOT GDK_PLATFORM)
+if (WIN32 AND NOT GDK_PLATFORM AND NOT CMAKE_CROSSCOMPILING)
   if (NOT CMAKE_CXX_STANDARD_LIBRARIES MATCHES kernel32.lib)
     # On onecore, link to the onecore build of the MSVC runtime
     get_filename_component(msvc_path "${CMAKE_C_COMPILER}/../../../.." ABSOLUTE)
     link_directories(BEFORE "${msvc_path}/lib/onecore/${onnxruntime_target_platform}")
-    # The .lib files in the MSVC runtime have a DEFAULITLIB entry for onecore.lib, which in turn links to reverse forwarders.
-    # We ignore that entry and use onecore_apiset.lib instead, since system components must not rely on reverse forwarders.
-    add_link_options("/NODEFAULTLIB:onecore.lib")
+    # The .lib files in the MSVC runtime have a DEFAULITLIB entry for onecore.lib, but it shold not cause any conflict with onecoreuap.lib
   endif()
 endif()
 

cmake/wcos_rules_override.cmake

@@ -1,2 +1,2 @@
-set(CMAKE_C_STANDARD_LIBRARIES_INIT onecoreuap_apiset.lib)
-set(CMAKE_CXX_STANDARD_LIBRARIES_INIT onecoreuap_apiset.lib)
+set(CMAKE_C_STANDARD_LIBRARIES_INIT onecoreuap.lib)
+set(CMAKE_CXX_STANDARD_LIBRARIES_INIT onecoreuap.lib)