upgrade eslint-plugin-relay to 1.3.0

Summary:
Notable changes:
- Better location reporting for unused fields
- 1 definition per `graphql` tag
- hooks lint rules
- Don't warn about unused `__typename`

Reviewed By: jstejada

Differential Revision: D14481913

fbshipit-source-id: 49cffaae1e8995ee387d2dbb5029503a43f8d530

package.json

@@ -125,7 +125,6 @@
     "eslint-plugin-react": "7.8.2",
     "eslint-plugin-react-hooks": "^1.0.1",
     "eslint-plugin-react-native": "3.5.0",
-    "eslint-plugin-relay": "0.0.28",
     "flow-bin": "^0.94.0",
     "jest": "24.5.0",
     "jest-junit": "6.3.0",